I’ve written before about the importance of mentoring, but I didn’t name names. After the recent death of Dr. Richard Hill, I feel compelled to identify him as my first professional mentor and explain more specifically about his influence on my life.
I only had the privilege of teaching with Dr. Hill at Riverside High School for 5 years before his retirement, but these were the first years of my teaching career, and he was a foundation for me. Early on in my first year, he and his wife had me over to their house for dinner, along with the student teacher with whom he was working that semester. Although he mentored scores of teachers during his long and productive career, this simple gesture underscored that he valued me as an individual as well as a new colleague and that he was willing to invest his time in me. During that first year, the school was so overcrowded that I didn’t have my own classroom and had to teach in a different room every period, so a job that is always trying for first-year teachers was even more unsettled for me. But Dr. Hill was a source of stability amongst the turmoil. Through formal observations and informal conversations, he made it clear that he believed in me, all the while making certain I understood that my success did not depend on my trying to replicate his teaching style. Admittedly, I would have been hard-pressed to do so, because in addition to his huge intellect, he had a booming voice and a tall stature that could command the attention of a high school classroom in ways that I never could. Plus he had a smile that could envelop a room and diffuse many tense situations. But knowing that a seasoned veteran believed in me gave me strength when things seemed bleak. We definitely shared a love of the intricacies and patterns of history, and he patiently helped me think through the strategies that could work for me as a teacher. As I made my first steps of professional advancement and became chair of the social studies department, he offered his advice from having previously filled that position himself. Not to mention that any time I had concerns about whether or not I was correctly pronouncing a place or name, I knew that I could count on him to set me straight.
Dr. Hill also taught me a lesson that has been formative for life, not just for teaching. He had enjoyed a successful career at another Durham high school before moving to Riverside when it opened. But even with all his experience — or perhaps because of it — he recognized that not every day or every lesson would go as planned. So on the whiteboard in his classroom, one word could always be found written in all capital letters: RESILIENCE. Understanding the need for resilience has been a valuable lesson for all parts of my life.
I know at the time of his retirement many colleagues and former students and parents of students crowded the lobby to wish him a fond farewell. In addition to our love of history, Dr. Hill and I shared a love of music, so I had opportunities to continue our friendship after his retirement when we saw each other at concerts and other social events. I hope in the ensuing years enough people continued echoing the message that his was a life well lived, impacting countless lives around him. Now that we no longer have his grace and wisdom to enrich our lives, the best we can do to honor his legacy is to embrace resiliency and to be willing mentors to those around us.